SO WHAT IS BDSM?


If you have ever researched sexual fetishes or even wanted to know more about BDSM sex, you have also wondered what this used acronym means, right?
Some people talk about it and use this expression, but few know what these four letters mean.
Basically the BDSM relationship is a relationship where there is, on purpose and consensually, an imbalance of power and control between those involved.
That is, someone is submissive and someone is dominant.
So what do the letters stand for?
It is a shortened version of three smaller acronyms: BD, DS and SM.
These stand for Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission and Sadism and Masochism.
Bondage is Related to tying and restraining movements for erotic purposes.
Discipline involves activities where control and discipline are imposed by one person on another using both reward and punishment.
Domination and Submission as the name says is a relationship where there are unequal roles.
The submissive obeys the superior who is the dominator.
Sadism and Masochism consist of practices where one of those involved, the sadist, inflicts pain, suffering or humiliation on the masochist and they both enjoy this situation.
It is always good to remember that in all BDSM relationships the ultimate goal is the pleasure of both participants and must be safe, consensual and advantageous for everyone involved.
it is important to remember that BDSM practices follow the line of “safe, sane and consensual”. This is usually abbreviated as SSC.
Every activity must be physically and psychologically safe.
Those involved must know the risks and everyone must be sane enough to accept any kind of action.
In addition, of course, everyone must consent to everything that will be done.
With this in mind a safe word is normally used.
The Safe word is a term  which indicates that the physical and emotional limits are being reached.
It can also be used to show the desire to continue with less intensity.
It is important to care for the submissive after all of the abuse.
Ensuring that everyone is safe and in a good physical and mental state is important for the relationship to remain respectful.
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Men – Just think of having your wife or partner completely at your mercy.
Better still invite your friends round so that you can all enjoy her.
Ladies – Imagine your husband or partner being helpless as you take out your frustrations by punishing him.
If you are gay then this must be for you.
Go on give it a go – You know that you want to. 

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